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Asked for Male | 26 Years

Difficulty with Erection During Intimacy

Patient's Query

Hi, am Martin Mwila, am 26 years old and am a Zambian by nationality. My problem is I've never had sex with a woman before but last year I thought let me give it a try now I had to face this problem. Like the time I wanted to get intimate with my woman I couldn't get an erection at all. It happens that I can get an erection instantly when I don't have it in my mind that I will have sex with a woman for example when I'm maybe playing, touching or just talking with my woman I get an erection. But if I have intentions of having sex I don't get an erection. Please help me it's causing me to worry and feel depressed.

Answered by Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

You're­ dealing with performance anxie­ty. This causes difficulties getting or ke­eping an erection during se­x due to stress or pressure­. To help, talk openly with your partner about your fe­elings. Practice relaxation me­thods like deep bre­athing exercises. The­rapy or counseling can teach technique­s to manage anxiety too. 

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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (458)

After taking medication for three to four months, I frequently have penile rashes, which go away and then return. Some flesh had a covering of dead skin like wounds this time around. could you please suggest me a better treatment where my condition would be completely cured.

Male | 27

Many times when it is borderline phimosis… Then during intercourse if you use proper lubricants like, lubic jelly, k-y jelly or any other jelly or oil etc. for both of you then many times there is no pain or tear of the foreskin and you can have painless intercourse.
But sometimes if the partner's vagina is very tight or dry then you may face problem.
So first you try the above said lubricants if your problem is not solved then you must consult a General Surgeon,
www.kayakalpinternational.com

Answered on 23rd May '24

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mustrubation and watching porn

Male | 20

It is appropriate for grown-ups to masturbate and watch porn, but excessively doing so can lead to problems such as fatigue, insomnia, and lack of concentration. Be curious but remember doing other things is just as important. Check yourself on the number of times you are involved in these things. Seek assistance from a confidant if these habits start hindering your normal life or relationships.

Answered on 23rd May '24

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I had unprotected sex with a girl in the morning, then I bought her the morning after pill and after 2 hours we had another unprotected sex that I also do not trust. So my question is should i buy another morning after pill for her to drink within 72 hours or the first pill will work for even the second unprotected sex?

Female | 19

Morning after pill e­ffectiveness is highe­st when taken within 72 hours of unsafe se­x. After that time period, it may not work. For the­ second instance of unsafe se­x, get another morning after pill. Don't re­ly on protection from the previous pill. Use­ protection every time­ to prevent pregnancy and stop se­xually transmitted infections.

Answered on 1st Aug '24

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I have issue with my penius size and when I had sex with my partner I can't last long for few months I don't know what happened to me I want perfect Dr for that n no addict medicines any solution??

Male | 33

Such problems may result from different things such as stress, anxiety, or certain medical conditions. Take good care of yourself by getting enough sleep, eating healthy foods, and engaging in physical exercises regularly. Besides, try to open up with your spouse about this matter and at the same time practice some relaxation methods together. 

Answered on 12th June '24

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Having problem staying hard for long

Male | 26

ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION causes vary, including ANXIETY, DEPRESSION, STRESS, and poor LIFESTYLE.... REGULAR EXERCISE, HEALTHY DIET, and GOOD SLEEP can help... SMOKING and excessive DRINKING can affect sexual performance... TALK to your DOCTOR for medication options...

Answered on 23rd Aug '24

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Hello i am 26 years old year and galf ago i got fat i am now around 120kg but i excersise i still got stomach not to much for my hight 193 cm since i got fat my balls doesnt hang anymore as they used to hang they are always more close to the body even in warm temperatures they rarely get that loose like they used to be before i got this big i am no fat fat but more bodybulder fat i never used any medications or supstances what is happening is this normal?

Male | 26

Seems normal... still more information is needed to help you with suitable solutions... 

Get yourself evaluated for best advice.. 

Answered on 23rd May '24

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I'm a 21 year old male l had oral sex with my girl friend and after 2 days l started having flue like symptoms and my lip has swollen also my penis is having red pimples on it

Male | 21

It sounds like you may have caught a virus called herpes. Herpes can cause flu-like symptoms, swollen lips, and red pimples on the penis. It is usually spread through sexual contact. To help with the symptoms, you can take pain relievers and use cold packs on your lip. Make sure to talk to your girlfriend so she can get checked too.

Answered on 23rd May '24

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after quitting masturbation If it has been more than a year since you quit masturbating So the body starts repairing and the hormones get corrected. And there is no need to take any medicine and there is no effect in marriage.??? If masturbation is done only on the upper lips of vagina not vagina in past.2) And after leaving it, there are lazmi night falls twice a month, is this also dangerous or not?

Female | 22

When you stop, your body can heal itself, and the hormones can come back to balance on their own. Masturbating on the upper lips of the vagina is okay. Night falls twice a month are normal and not dangerous. It's your body's way of getting rid of excess fluid. 

Answered on 21st Aug '24

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I am 18 years old. I am a male. I am doing masturbation daily. Let me know if there is any side effects or harmful by doing masturbation Daily. Please also tell me for my future effect by doing this type of activity.

Male | 18

For someone young like yourself can be common to masturbate. It is safe to do so each day and it will not hurt you. However, excessive masturbation may lead to soreness or irritation. If you experience these symptoms, take a break for your body to heal itself. 

Answered on 6th June '24

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Due to the various adverse effects of the allopathic medications I've previously used to cure my erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation for many months, I'm reluctant to try the homoeopathic therapy for sexual dysfunction that is now accessible to me.

Male | 32

your problem of erectile dysfunction and pre-mature ejaculation are most commonly occurring in all ages of men, fortunately these both have high recovery rates through ayurvedic medications.
I am explaining briefly about erectile dysfunction and pre-mature ejaculation so that it takes fear out of you.
In erectile dysfunction, men are not able to get or keep an erection that is sufficient to have penetrative sex. In premature ejaculation men come out Very fast, men gets discharged either before penetration or immediately after penetration, they hardly get some strokes, so the female partner remains unsatisfied.
This may be due to so many factors like High cholesterol, High blood pressure,
Diabetes, excessive masturbation, excessive porn watching, nerves weakness,
Obesity, thyroid, heart problem, alcohol, Tobacco use, Sleep disorders, Low testosterone, tension, stress etc.
These problems of erectile dysfunction and pre-mature ejaculation are very much treatable.
I am suggesting you some ayurvedic medicines.
Take Aswagandhadi churan half teaspoon in the morning & in the night.
Take Capsule SHILAJIT one in the morning and one in the night,
Take tablet manmath Ras one in the morning and one in the night.
Take tablet Pushp dhanva Ras one in the morning and one in the night. And take tablet Sidh makardhwaj Vati with gold, one in the morning and one in the night after food.
All the above preferably with hot milk or with water
Also apply and message Shri Gopal tail on your penis three times a week for 2 to 4 minutes.
Avoid junk food, oily and spicier food, alcohol, tobacco, tension and anxiety.
Start doing brisk walk or running or cardio exercises for at least 30 min a day. Start doing yoga, pranayama, meditation, Vajroli mudra. Ashwini mudra, kegel exercise for at least 30 min a day.
Start taking hot milk twice a day.
2-3 dates in the morning and in the night with milk.
Do all the above suggested treatment for 3 months and see the results.
If you don't get satisfactory results then please go to your family doctor or a good sexologist.
You can also contact me on my private chat or directly in my clinic. We can send you the medicines by courier.
My website: www.kayakalpinternational.com

Answered on 11th Aug '24

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Can i take dapoxetine and sildenafil together before sexual activity. How much mg should i take. I am looking for erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation

Male | 36

Unless instructed by your doctor, you cannot take sildenafil with dapoxetine because of the possibility of side effects. Dapoxetine fights premature ejaculation disorder, while the other one helps sustain an erection. These two drugs can interfere with each other and result in a serious episode of side effects, if there is a misuse. Your doctor always recommends the actual dosage. Therefore, don't take a chance to make a combination of them, this is often quite hazardous and should not be attempted by anyone.

Answered on 13th June '24

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Hi doctor, i was exposed on April 20, started PEP on April 22. Finished PEP on May 19 and took fourth generation (ag/ab) test, on May 20, it came negative. Should I go for retest again.

Male | 23

Consult an expert for best advice... there can be many possibilities for the situation

Answered on 23rd May '24

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