Why do I feel strong pain during masterbation?

It appears from the symptoms you mention that something does not work well because of pain and bleeding which happen every time after having sexual intercourse. A UTI or an STI may be the cause of this. UTIs are infections that happen in the body's urinary tract, while STIs are infections that are transferred through sex. The most common symptoms are pain, burning when passing water, and bleeding. It is very important to see a doctor to make sure you're diagnosed and receive the proper treatment fast. Also, remember to always use protections during sex for instances of contamination.

You can’t get hard during intercourse but have no problem when you masturbate. This might be caused by stress or anxiety. At times being too concerned about how well we do in bed affects our bodies’ ability to function normally. Take it easy. However, if it happens again then consult your doctor immediately.

It's usual for people as they mature to have trouble obtaining and preserving an erection. This may happen because of reduced blood circulation, specific medications, stress, or fundamental illnesses such as diabetes or cardiovascular disease. To improve your condition, try remaining physically active, eating well, managing stress, and talking to your doctor about possible remedies.

These signs might be because of many things such as stress or bad eating habits. But don’t worry, your brother’s test result was negative which is good news but to ease your mind, you should also take an HIV test among others after discussing with a doctor about the issues at hand. 

Certain issues can cause people to finish too quickly and have trouble getting hard. Mental health can play a part in it, such as feeling nervous or being under tension. The problem may also be caused by masturbating too much when you were younger. Instead of taking drugs like Cialis, you should first try to find out what’s really going on through therapy or counseling and then look for ways to deal with your concerns. You must speak openly about this with your doctor so that they can give you the right advice.

Premature ejaculation is treatable. Relaxation techniques help. Improve by practicing the "squeeze technique." It is also possible to try topical anesthetics. Consult a doctor for further advice.

If there was any precum and you put the condom on inside out but then flipped it, there might be a small chance of pregnancy, but it’s not very likely. It’s only been 5 days since that happened, so it’s too early for her to have any signs of being pregnant. To make things even safer, suggest to her that she should use emergency contraception such as the morning-after pill. This will stop the egg from being fertilized. Also, just to be cautious, watch out for any unusual symptoms in your partner within the next few weeks like missing a period or having strange bleeding. 

It is crucial to realize that gaining an excessive amount of pornography and cyberspace ultimately results in being desensitized, and it has a negative impact on sexual encounters with real living partners and relationships.

The "flat line" effect, that you brought up, is also a commonly displayed problem where former porn addicts may experience a drop in their sex drive and arousal. But for now, the findings are not substantial, more studies are required to distinguish porn effect on sexual function from its own.

With regard to facilitation, many people have found it immensely helpful to consult a professional mental health care provider, such as a therapist or a counselor, and avail their expert help in dealing with this problem and addressing any underlying psychological factors. A sex therapist may possess skills in counseling individuals with sexual dysfunction or enhancing sexual functions.

Your well-being is of top concern and seeking the help of a mental and sexual health specialist can provide you with the needed information when making a decision about your next step. In this connection, I suggest you talk to a psychologist or sex therapist, whose main professional concern is the issues you are experiencing, for more help and support.

Best regards,
Dr. Madhu Sudan